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    Home » Musings

    Celebration of A Life

    Published by Pam Kessler | 289 words. · About 2 minutes to read this article. - 37 Comments

    If you were to ask me why I started blogging the number one answer would be because of my sister, Ruth.

    She was a serious antique collector and was instrumental in my love of antiques and all things vintage.

    She had been seriously ill for the last few years and pretty much staying at home all the time.

    And my starting the blog was a way for me to share with her and the world what I was buying, what I was collecting and what I was doing to my house. And she loved it.


    She also loved to visit the blogs on my sidebar and see what those people were up to. She absolutely loved That Old House and Between Naps On The Porch to name a few.


    My sister died early last week after a rapid decline in her illness. Her memorial service is today.

    I will be taking a few days off to spend some time with family and try to get some normalcy back in my life which feels very off kilter right now.


    You know, I struggled with whether to share this with the blogging world or not. We all have our own issues and it's hard to know how much to put out there.

    I felt that if I didn't say anything, then I was hiding something from you. And if I said something, then I was being a Debbie Downer. So anyhow, I decided to be authentic and let my Debbie Downer side shine through.

    I'll see you in a few days.


    BTW, the photos are of a small part of my sister's oil lamp collection. Believe me, she has more. She was also a huge collector of cheese boxes and chairs.

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    1. Pat

      February 25, 2011 at 7:13 pm

      This is so late, but I wanted to say I am sorry for the loss of your mom. I enjoy all your posts, but I have been MIA for a little while. I bet she was so proud of your blog! Again, I really enjoy your blog, especially the little comments on each one.

      Pat

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    2. ⚜ ↁℯℬℬᴵℰ⚜

      February 25, 2011 at 12:27 pm

      Aww...Pam I am so very very sorry. I missed this post, and I feel bad. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.

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    3. ChRiS

      February 25, 2011 at 12:12 pm

      i missed this post for some reason...i am so sorry for your loss my prayers be with you and loved ones

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    4. Michelle @Shellsshabbyshack

      February 25, 2011 at 11:22 am

      I'm sorry I didn't see this post, Pam! Very sorry for your loss! My prayers are with you and your family! xoxoxo

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    5. Ocean Breezes and Country Sneezes

      February 25, 2011 at 10:47 am

      I'm very sorry for your loss. I can't imagine your pain or what it would be like to lose one of my sisters. I will keep your sister Ruth and your families in my thoughts and prayers.

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